just finished watching hi my sweetheart. its been long since i watch idol drama alr. lots of things to think abt, lots of things to reflect abt.
and of course, i tear like hell T.T every episode summore...
how does it feel?
erm.. one moment happy one moment sad...
mixed feelings la.
too much to take.
i was thinking, if i were inside this story would i even be able to take it. so much stress upon me. ok la though i sortof been through it before.
when u are losing hope in life. when some stranger comes to you. asking you not to lose hope in life. thats the feeling i got when watching.
at times in life, we face our ups and downs. yes, in ur ups you were damn high. but what abt when you are at the dull periods? are you going to pick yourself up or wait for ppl to pull u up? if there are ppl who willing do so to u, GOOD. but wad if there isnt?
that's wad "陈宝茱" was facing through the 6 years. she felt ppl pulling her up. and she felt herself gaining the will to pick herself up. in two different scenarios. well, i admire this girl of learning so much, growing up over these... 6 yrs. or 7. but is there anyone around me who are liddat? hmm.. i dunno. very few. or not even one.
bottling up is not a solution to your problems. not that friends around u will help solve your problems, but at least. finding someone to cry ur hearts out, finding someone to be a listening ear, finding someone to share this burden with u. isnt it a good thing?
and this word, "misunderstanding". i believe all of us have been through this word. literally. how many times have we been wronged by our loved ones? how many times have we cleared them? and look at how this word changed us totally. "林达浪" to "薛海" is a freaking good example. see the way he treated "陈宝茱". nb. damn dui. but aren't we facing this all these while in our lives?
well. that's what is lacking: information. the need to know the whole story. the whole picture. not be narrow minded. not to be closed mindset. yes its painful, its unbelievable. to know the whole thing. but knowing the whole thing will be better than being kept in the dark, being spin like nobody's business...
so well, this show just teach me 1 thing: to grow up. ambiguous eh?
but what about u? do u still want to stay in our comfort zone and not grow up?